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　　雅思口語Part2話題：浪費時間的活動—談戀愛！今天跟大家聊聊戀愛這個話題。我絕對不是什么戀愛專家，只能算是個有失敗經驗的發言人。“浪費時間的活動”是本季的一道Part2口語話題。

　　在最近的一次課上，一個姑娘看到這個題目之后，立馬跟我表達了她的思路—談戀愛真的太TM浪費時間了，尤其是當你遭遇了無疾而終的愛情。

　　但是，戀愛本身就是很難預測未來。戀愛-結婚-終老，這是一種模式。戀愛-結婚-離婚，也是一種模式。還有一種是戀愛-分手，很多人經歷過的模式。甚至有一種恐怖模式：戀愛-結婚-謀殺-碎尸。太可怕了！

　　所謂“不談戀愛，屁事沒有”，真的很有道理。

　　為什么女生普遍在分手后義憤填膺，甚至在過了很多年之后想起前任依舊是咬牙切齒的狀態呢？

　　我估計應該是姑娘們普遍在戀愛的時候都幻想過未來要嫁給那個人吧，甚至有的人可能第一眼就淪陷了，把未來孩子的名字想好了什么的。所以，最后的分手就會讓人有種“老娘這么多年的青春真是喂了狗”的感覺。

　　其實分手兩個人都會痛苦，只是程度不同而已。青春也是一起浪費的，誰的青春沒浪費過呢？

　　當下，很多姑娘高喊著要做富婆，只有自己有錢心里才踏實，說男人沒用，都是渣男，都是廢物，有錢沒錢都出軌。這話呀，看出來了，這些姑娘是真絕望了，估計也被騙過，傷心了。

　　但是，她們在一個人獨處的時候，委屈的時候，疲憊的時候，閨蜜和爸媽都不在身邊的時候，真的會強大到不會胡思亂想么？表面的堅強掩蓋不了內心的柔軟。每一個不會撒嬌的姑娘都是因為沒有被溫柔對待過吧。

　　所以，戀愛到底是不是一個浪費時間的行為？如果多次戀愛失敗，是不是就要下定決心不再相信愛情？沒有愛情的婚姻是無意義的么？婚姻一定是愛情的墳墓么？結婚是為了傳宗接代么？是為了給父母一個安慰么？戀愛專家對于這些問題能夠給出一個完美的答案么？

　　如果愛情會讓人變成傻子，那么我們應該甘之如飴還是清醒拒絕一切可能的愛情，認認真真地決定絕對不做一個傻子？

　　我只有問號，沒有答案。

　　但是這道題目我可以給大家一個參考答案。

　　I often fall in love with the wrong person, again and again. I have alot of bad romances. I started to date when I was in college and experienced a few relationships. However, I am single now and I don’t feel like dating anyone at this moment.

　　I used to believe that falling in love is a very romantic and magical thing since the word “love” is so beautiful and special.Therefore, when I failed in a relationship, I would always try to find myself back and be prepared to meet another person. Some of my relationships last for over two years. Some last for a few months. To think about them today, I would say that I have indeed wasted a lot of time since no one becomes my permanent partner.

　　Compared with some of my friends who dated only once and got married with their date, I seem to be a big loser.

　　Actually, I didn’t think being in a relationship is a waste of time in the past. I was always concentrated and serious with the boys.However, now, I think differently. If I fall in love with a wrong person again, I may end up alone again. I don’t trust intimate relationships any more. To some extent, I don’t trust men any more.I could always use my precious time to keep company with my parents and friends. It’s more fruitful to focus on improving myself and spending time with those who really love me and those who deserve my love. Bad romance can only bring me hurt and disappointment. I don’t want to waste my time any more.

　　其實，我依舊相信愛情。